She was polyamorous before we met and afterwards she became monogomous declaring her undying love for me. And when I caught her cheating on me, she apologized and I did forgive her until when she became physically violent and we broke off. Afterwards, she used pregnancy to emotionally blackmail me and I believed her despite her having sex with me and multiple other men when we met. I used to have dreams that someone else’s dick is going close to my baby in her tummy and I used to wake up screaming with tears and going in the middle of night on a highway only to feel people around me after she stole my money, gadgets and ran to her family and cops spreading lies about me and using woman card. According to her, she used my bank card to abort the baby but never gave me the receipt which she promised and today I know that she was faking pregnancy all this along. That trauma is still with me despite many years passing. I still shake my head with an utter disbelief that humans can come so close to someone and fake love, tears, pregnancies, etc only to steal a few thousand bucks/gadgets, live a luxurious life (temporily off my money, in my home, riding my car) and then leave with any convenient excuse. This ridiculously stupid thing I can’t seem to get over no matter despite thousands of opinions from hundreds of people out there on the same subject. Faking love is probably the worst skill out there people master after having multiple failed relationships and try their luck on totally newbies in dating world like myself.
Phew! That was a lot written or said in a single breath.
Thanks for allowing me to take it off my chest. Be careful when dating out there and before believing anybody’s tears, promises, etc, please think twice.
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