You Can NEVER Cheat On Your Love With Me

Over decades, after being cheated upon multiple times, I think I have ultimately identified "the" man that a woman cheats with upon her boyfriend, husband or a life-partner (a new term for those who can't afford to marry). Its no more the woman I wonder about. Its now the men who she chooses to cheat … Continue reading You Can NEVER Cheat On Your Love With Me

Tired of Trying To Fit In…(or maybe just tired)

Before I say anything, I’d let this gem of a soul speak for herself;

“I am tired of living in such a greedy World. Those that don’t want to live simply but will do everything to simply live. Live in the manner of their own choosing. Something that continues to erode the spirit and the mind. Something that will forever keep us bound to our problems and will never truly let us be set free and fly. Sometimes I feel like I am in control and on top of things. Other times I feel like I am at my wits end. What keeps me moving forward is reminding myself we are all truly bound to this period in time together. If I can make your experience better by being happy and positive and reaching out a hand just imagine if you were on the other side reaching too. We are all guilty of loving our superficial over inflated lives just a tad too much. Maybe it is simply enough to live humbly and let the humbly live too.”

The above does not need any explaining. Let your soul digest what hers described in such an eloquent way. Totally made my day and probably for the rest of life, I’d continue referring back to her with the same philosophy that I have myself carried since decades across continents of this planet Earth.

In the same post, she raises an interesting question;

“The man who gave me life really couldn’t care less about me and my family. Can somebody tell me how to move past that?”

She’s talking about her dad who may have his own issues (or scars). But a daughter looking up to her dad to define what a man should be or look like, is so natural and perfectly normal. Let’s blame our quest for the ideal that can’t seem to surpass the imperfections with which every human (man or a woman) is born with.

Later in the post, talking about relationships between stranger men and women (the love thingy, you know), she says;

“Nor should we tie our happiness to somebody else’s.”

This is very confusing at least for me. Of course, I’m happy all by myself. But what is wrong in looking for “more” happiness? Fear of rejection? Fear of not having it reciprocated? Oh well. If you are a happy individual, no matter how messed up or confused the other half of yours is, you’d still stay happy naturally, getting past their own imperfections and actually embracing them as the unique combination of good+evil they came pre-packaged with to this planet Earth.

I always boldly go in seeking “more” happiness out there from birds, trees, oceans and people. And since I’m already well-prepared for the worst while expecting the best at the same time, hence I’m rarely disappointed. Thanks to the philosophy of Dale Carnegie.

I want to know what did she mean when she said;

” I have never given so much to have everything thrown back.”

Hopefully I’d hear from such a precious soul someday about it. Totally enjoyed an amazing soul-searching of hers via a great choice of words. People like her make this world worth living and having fun.

Cheers! 🙂

Sweet Ruby Bluez

I always wanted to fit it. Always. I was a shy young girl and found it hard at first but making friends became easy. It was keeping them that was a bit harder. My desire to fit in was more like a desire…a desire to be popular but only with the boys. I guess that is where my first misguided misconceptions started to form. Surely little by little I started making choices and friends that gravitated me towards the wrong crowd. It is not like a grew up sheltered, I just grew up with a strong desire to be close to my family. Nothing else really mattered until I ventured off into school. And it wasn’t right away. As youngsters are personalities were just forming. We were just learning about arts, crafts, sports, music. We all had our “thing” and mine was surely boys.

I do not know exactly what…

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I Can Sell Popsicle To Eskimos

Someone who (I believe) still loves me, used to complement me by saying; "You can sell Popsicle to Eskimos". Another one (who hates me to the core of her bones, which is probably the height of someone loving me the most), said the same thing, except in a negative connotative way; "You will always say … Continue reading I Can Sell Popsicle To Eskimos

Prose Review: Someone Who Used To Love You by Brandi

Ms.Brandi (a blogger operating by the name of Manessah) posted an interesting piece titled "Someone Who Used To Love You". As a woman, she described the feelings one goes through after being told by the one who "used to" love that she is not loved anymore. She is describing love between two total strangers and … Continue reading Prose Review: Someone Who Used To Love You by Brandi

Why Will You Subject Your Heart To Love Again… And Again… And Again?

Once bitten twice shy. And still, why would anyone want to love again? One bad experience might be too many for someone and they may never want to subject themselves to the same (potential) pain again. They say time heals. Oh yes. Time does heal. It tries to help you forget and slowly let the … Continue reading Why Will You Subject Your Heart To Love Again… And Again… And Again?

Internet Speed Bandwidth Quality For Voice Over IP (VOIP) Phone Calls

Calling anyone via phone, messenger, Facebook, Skype, etc., over Internet, you may face some call quality issues. They are caused by poor Internet connection. They are usually fixed by the Internet connection provider. However, to find out how good or poor is your connection speed (or bandwidth) for VOIP calls, here are a few tips. … Continue reading Internet Speed Bandwidth Quality For Voice Over IP (VOIP) Phone Calls

Feral and Absurd Destinations: What I Want – Sarah Mason

Total silence... My mouth was open in an awe! I was literally speaking while actually reading. That has never happened to me. Nothing has ever consumed me so much that I'd forget to not read aloud. Totally a raw moment her words caused me. She made my soul run in the abundant beauty of the wild … Continue reading Feral and Absurd Destinations: What I Want – Sarah Mason

How I Found A Woman For Myself Online

Years back in my office, after I was done checking my E-mail from Yahoo, I saw a small advertisement from Yahoo Personals (a dating site). There were some pretty faces of women on that advertisement. Before I go ahead and tell you what happened after I clicked that ad, let me give you a tiny … Continue reading How I Found A Woman For Myself Online

Fearing Social Media?

I took my gloves off only after watching and learning from trolls on Internet for more than 15 years. Before social media, there were all kinds of internet forums, chats, etc. You may say its a long time not succumb to the urge of participating in a discussion freely and openly. And I can't agree … Continue reading Fearing Social Media?